You live and you learn. The statement people often say after a break up. Its true though, life comes with many obstacles that end up teaching us many lessons. Lessons that help us grow stronger. Lessons that help us become wiser. Lessons that help us become a better person. No one ever said life was easy. Everyone has their struggles. Some, more than others. As long as you never give up without a fight. Without trying, without, giving it your all, then you’re doing exactly what you should do. Taking risks and change can be a very scary thing, but in reality we have to be open to them, otherwise, we’d be stuck. We wouldn’t move forward,we wouldn’t try new things. We wouldn’t become who we’re suppose to be. They’re going to be people who try to knock you down and hurt you. They’re going to be a lot of them. Trust me, and it doesn’t get any easier. But that’s what makes you human. Feelings, emotions, compassion, without those,we’d be heartless, meaning, dead inside. There are those occasional people who will break you’re heart and might never understand you. And its okay to cry, to let it all out. Once you try everything you could have to save your relationship and nothing changes its okay to give up. Sometimes its for the best. If they can’t appreciate you’re efforts and respect you enough to talk then none of its worth it. I know its hard, I know it hurts. I’m still hurting, but I like to believe that I’ll be okay.  You live and you learn life’s challenges.